Valerie Jones

{Live with Purpose. Lead with Passion.}

I am a blogger, worship leader, and speaker who helps worship leaders and team members connect with purpose and passion in life and leadership by offering encouragement, community, and practical resources so that they can thrive in life and leadership, both on and off the platform.

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{Why | Day 4 of 31}

Day 4 | {WHY}

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Oh goodness. Sometimes, you have to let go of the need to know why. You have to be ok not knowing. Confession: I'm not always good at that. But, thankfully Holy Spirit is patiently teaching me. There was a time past when, instead of trusting God's nature, I demanded answers from Him. Why did that happen to me? Why didn't you protect me? Why didn't you heal her? Why did you let him die? There are SO many things wrong with this mindset. But, here’s one: I mistakenly believed God owed me some explanation. Real talk? He doesn't. God can handle my questions. It's just that my heart was angry and bitter. And, that's never good. Sometimes, we believe we have earned the right to be angry, and we guard the wounded places of our hearts. But God wants unrestricted access to our wounded hearts and the broken pieces of our lives. And when you invite Him to work in those fractured, hidden places, guess what happens? You start asking different questions. Instead of demanding answers to all of the whys, you start asking God to reveal something of Himself to you. You begin asking Holy Spirit to teach you things, to make you more like Jesus. You learn to lean into the truth that Jesus changes everything. Here's the thing: We have to want Him more than we want answers to all the why questions. He wants to be the one thing we desire above all else. We have to trust Him more than we need to have every answer. Because, friends, there are seasons of life when HE is the only thing that makes sense. Besides, He's perfectly trustworthy. He never gets it wrong. Never.

Stop.

{Believe | Day 3 of 31}

Day 3 | {Believe}

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I have a lot of words rushing through my brain. So many words and only five minutes. Here's the thing: what you believe matters. But, there's a difference between having a superficial belief in something and a deep-seated belief in something. When you grab hold of something and let it become part of who you are, it will inevitably show up in the way you do life.

What you believe may compel you in some areas and bring restraint in other areas. Either way, what you believe shows up in hundreds of tiny ways throughout the day with every choice you make. It matters. It just does.

So, here's the question. Does what you believe about Jesus change the way you live? What if we become people so compelled by Christ's love for us that we show up and live like people who BELIEVE Him. Like we belong to Him. What if we engaged day-to-day with a deeply rooted belief that Jesus changes everything. Yeah, what if we did that?

Stop.

{Afraid | Day 2 of 31}

Go.

Day 2 | {Afraid}

I used to be afraid. I'm not talking about the kind of fear you brush aside quickly. No, it was the kind of fear that smothered and crippled. I was afraid of people. I was scared of bad things happening to people I love or to me. I was fearful of the worst-case scenario. I suppose one could boil it down to my need for control. Yeah, that's it. I was afraid of things I couldn't control. My life felt like one, big giant "what if?" Yeah, that's no fun.

But then, I figured out that all the things weren't mine to control in the first place. Somewhere along the way, I had forgotten that God holds the universe in the palm of His hand. And, somehow I had forgotten that circumstance does not determine God's goodness or change what is true about His character. God is who He says He is. Always. Without exception. When you let that truth settle down deep into your soul and change your heart and mind, then fear loses its power. Faith remembers that God is who He says He is, and the what if becomes even if . . .

We do not have to be afraid. We are not alone. Because, Jesus.

Jesus changes everything.

Stop.

{Story | Day 1 of 31}

The Five Minute Friday community is the best! I love the spending five minutes just writing. I joined the 31 Day Writing Challenge two years ago, and I decided to participate again this year. When I started a new teaching job last year, my time to write seemed to vanish. Instead, there were lesson plans, parent emails, and all the things that go with being a teacher. And, that's ok. But I miss writing. If you aren't familiar with Five Minute Friday, here's the scoop. FMF means unedited, straight-from-the-heart-to-the-paper writing. Yep, you write whatever comes out based on a given prompt in five minutes flat. So . . . Here's to the Write 31 Days challenge, five-minute Friday style! I'm excited, and I'm glad you stopped by. I hope that at the end of 31 days, you find a collection of posts that encourage you and maybe even stir something deep inside your soul. At the very least, perhaps we can be reminded that we aren't alone and that there is always hope.

Day 1 {Story}

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I love a good story. Don't you? I appreciate words, so it's no surprise, I suppose, that a well-written story is one of my favorite things. In any good story, there's usually something that you can follow beginning to end. You know, like a thread that ties it all together. In Scripture, that's Jesus. In my life, let that be Jesus. We all have a story to tell. We're living it every day. I used to be very protective of & private about my story. A certain amount of vulnerability is inevitable when you talk about your life. Vulnerability is uncomfortable. And, then there’s this need for control. I tell you the story — but I can’t determine how it lands with you. I used to worry and then worry some more about what people might say or think. But, not anymore. The Lord corrected me. He changed my heart and mind and reminded me that this story, my story, is His. He's already written it, and He knows how it ends. My story is His because my life is His. My priority is always to aim people in the right direction—away from me and toward Him—in everything I do. Here's the thing: my story paints a picture of God's relentless love and unfathomable grace, redemption, and hope. Because, Jesus. That's the story I want my life to tell. I want my life to point people toward Jesus. I don't want it to be about me. It's not about me. It's about Jesus. Always.

Jesus. Changes. Everything. Yeah, He does. Grab hold of Him today, friends. Look for Him. Listen for Him. Let Him tell His story through your life. He's perfectly faithful, and He knows what He's doing.

Stop.

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{Only | Day 31 of 31}

Ready? Go.

I've decided I'm not going to be an "if only . . . " kind of girl. You know what I mean, right? I'm going to stop saying things like this:

If only I had . . .
If only he/she had . . .
If only it had . . .
If only the situation had worked out differently.

I'm all for contemplation and reflection. You'll never hear me discourage good, old-fashioned introspection and a healthy dose of self-awareness. It's just that I don't want to hang on to the "what if's and if only's." Tomorrow is new. Fresh mercy. A new measure of grace. There's more to come. We have hope. Yeah, hope.

So, I'd rather be the kind of gal who says things like this:

Yes, but God says . . .
Even still, because of Jesus . . .
Even still, Scripture says . . .
I see what happened, but so does He.

I belong to Him. And so, the what-ifs and if-onlys are His, too. And, He sees the big picture. No, wait, He's writing the story. I love that. Can you hear me breathing a sigh of relief?

Stop.